Friday, 23 June 2017

The Satanic Lie of "Free Love" and its Curse to Those who Embrace it

So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.
For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church.
(Ephesians 5:28-32)

Modern western society hates obligations and loves its so-called "freedoms" and "rights". It thinks that people should do whatever they want, and is even arrogant enough to think itself entitled to remove, if not totally eradicate the bad consequences which follow sin. There are a myriad of examples which demonstrate this, not just those relating to sexuality, sex and marriage. This indicates the mentality of the west in relation to anything, not just relation to sex and marriage.

History of Sex, Love and Marriage in the West - a Revolution in the 19th century

Before the 19th century, and even during much of the time during the Enlightenment which was a wicked age, sex outside of marriage was viewed as unacceptable. Of course there were those who practiced fornication, but they had to elope to avoid shame from society. However, by the end of the mid 19th century, the so-called "free love" movement gained traction.

The "free love" movement had its roots in the feminist movement. To be fair, the feminist movement is not solely responsible for this movement and its destruction, although it certainly was largely responsible for it. The feminist, alongside with the new 'sex radical' movement spread their lies about marriage and sex. Their perverted views on marriage, sex, womanhood and manhood are that which dominate 21st century western society today.

These perverted, demonic, and psychopathic men and women behind the "free love" movement had an evil agenda, just like the LGBT activists today who seek to push "transgenderism" and sodomy onto children, even seeking to encourage children as young as eight, usually boys, to become drag queens

These "free lovers", as I will call them, as a derogatory term which they so deserve, campaigned for fornication and adultery. They sought to separate sex and marriage, and in doing so, arguing that there was a "need" on the grounds that sex within marriage restricted a woman's "bodily autonomy". 

This observation is itself very interesting. It is the focus on woman's "bodily autonomy" specifically. This is because woman, in her position as helpmeet is the one who by virtue of her position can break or build up the marriage:

And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.

And out of the ground the Lord God formed every beast of the field, and every fowl of the air; and brought them unto Adam to see what he would call them: and whatsoever Adam called every living creature, that was the name thereof.
And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him.
And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof;
And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.
And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
(Genesis 2:18-23)

How? Because man is not complete with her. This is not to say man must be married to be fully human in God's eyes, but rather, that she completes him. That this is the case is not a bad thing. It is a good thing as God made it that way, and all things that God makes is good. That is why Proverbs is filled with Bible verses warning men about the types of wives who are a curse, and for that matter, the children who are a curse to them. It does not talk about the type of husband who is a curse to a wife specifically, or to a child. 

This is because men are the ones who need support for a wife and child in the spiritual sense to be able to lead according to God's way, given the way the family is instituted by God as per Ephesians 5:22-6:4. It is never the reverse. Although he can definitely seek to lead his family despite his opposition, just as Elijah did in facing jezebel, he needs their support, that is, their reverence, obedience and submission to him to satisfy his God-given duty to lead his family. This explains why all family problems start with woman, and her children, in no matter which cultural context or era.

The "Free Love" Movement is an attempt to Undermine Marriage as "One Flesh"

Marriage must necessarily be one flesh (Genesis 2:24; Mark 10:8). It is this idea which these free lovers so hated. The whole purpose of their movement was to attack this doctrine. 

The sex radicals, who are almost all men, if not all men, were liberals who subscribed to the enlightenment philosophy of humanism, secularism and rationalism. They may seem to modern society as 'enlightened' men who loved women, but they were not. They had their own self-seeking agenda in seeking to engage in fornication, adultery and all kinds of sexual immorality. 

The most notorious of the sex radicals is Edward Carpenter, who is known as the first homosexual activist. He had a life-long relationship with George Merrill, his homosexual boyfriend. Carpenter, is arguably, the father of modern sex education in schools, by which he sought to teach that women were oppressed in marriage, because sex could only be within marriage,  in seeking to poison the minds of generations of children. This was a form of "oppression" because women would not have "freedom" to engage in fornication, and adultery, which is itself rebellion against the husband of the adulteress.  

The underlying rationale of this view was that woman had a "right" to rebel. The motive by these sex radicals was to encourage rebellion of women, as they sought to rebel against God, in particular, his order for the family. Owing to her position as helpmeet whereby she is the one who makes or breaks a marriage, the focus must necessarily be on women's autonomy, rather than men's. Men's bodily autonomy follows women's bodily autonomy, rather than that women's bodily autonomy follow men's bodily autonomy, as she is the one under him (no pun intended, if you understand it). The following article is a great article explaining this, which I highly recommend you read, and where the pun was inspired:

https://biblicalgenderroles.com/2016/04/25/benefits-sexually-obedient-wife/ 


By separating sex and marriage, marriage is no longer practiced as a place where sexual bond united husband and wife can be made, and became seen as only something people chose as 'optional'. Since sexual boundaries drawn by marriage were eradicate, sex became that which could be sought outside of marriage. That is the fundamental reason why marriage had been declining in rates, and seen as less important since the 19th century. It is no longer where a sexual intimate relationship needed to be sought, as it could be sought elsewhere.

While this may be disconcerting to those who honour God-given sexual boundaries of marriage, and its role, be encouraged in knowing that God is not mocked. God has allowed all manner of dyfunction in marriage and family to occur as a result of the west proudly rejecting God's commands to humankind in relation to sex, marriage and family. Galatians 6:7-9 makes it clear that God is not mocked, as sin reaps its evil, and righteousness reaps rewards:

Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.

For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.
And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.

If you have ever suffered as a result of another's sin, in relation to sex, marriage or family, know that such persons will reap punishment. You might not be able to see it, but it will happen, because sin will bite back the sinner, like a snake biting those he deceives into seeking him. As the Bible says to the evil "your sin will find you out" (Numbers 32:23).

The bad fruit of the "free love" movement, being single motherhood, abandonment of women by boyfriends, no-fault divorce, the need to divorced women to both work full-time and care for children, abortion, child abuse, and rebellious children who will only turn around to hate their parents who despised the God-given order of family, are all curses. God will indeed not be mocked. Rather, he (or she) who mocks God will be mocked by God himself or herself.