"You cannot be a wishy washy, lovey dovey, greasy, relational, non hating anything person and be a loving person!
If you don't hate anything in this world you cant possibly love...because things are KILLING people!" -John Piper
Many in the modern Church think that if one speaks in a very direct way that expresses anger at sin and the sinner, which targets sin or specific persons doing the sin, it is unloving. They think that out of their respect for persons, which is itself a fear of person. Such is the blasphemous, vile, abominable fear of persons, which leads to all kinds of people-fearing blasphemous vile abominable doctrines, like cultural sensitivity and self-esteem.
God is no respecter of persons (Romans 2:11; Acts 10:34). Do not be a respecter of persons, full of the fear of people.