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A Vision from the Lord about the Spiritual Narcissist - Part 1

I received a revelation earlier this evening when I was taking my evening nap on Thursday 9 May 2019. It was about narcissism and its spiritual implications. I saw a vision where there was a reddish purple soft, squeezable egg-shaped object called the 'soul' that was being wrapped around by a cord. It was not a chain, but a rope. As it was almost completely being wrapped around, the egg-shaped object which represented the soul was then crushed. It cried out, and then the hand which crushed it stopped, only to wrap in around with the cord and crush it again. This same cycle continued to happen until infinity.

The Lord told me that the cord represents the constraints that the spirit of narcissism imposes on the soul, and the crushing of the soul represents what the narcissist ultimately seeks to do: to crush a person. As the soul not only represents the person, but that a person is a soul, this crushing represents the crushing of person, to not simply diminish the person, or to simply render him or her to be inanimate object or animal, for even inanimate objects and animals are respected, but to use a person to manipulate, dispose and discard, as another person decides, all while deriving satisfaction from it. This is the essence of domination where a person's soul is entirely at the mercy of another. It is absolutely evil and demonic.

Domination is never of God. God has never created any person, that is, any soul, to be dominated by another, manipulated and controlled, to the point of being disposable and discarded by that person as he or she decides. God has never created an person to be placed at the mercy of another, where that person can decide whether he or she wants to dominate that person. Domination is simply never of God.

The Lord then revealed to me five key characteristics of a spiritual narcissist, who is the most diabolical of all. The spiritual narcissist's manipulation is most evident in marriage as that is the most intimate earthly relationship. He or she manipulates his or her spouse by  five means:

1. Sexual manipulation leading to sexual bondage


The narcissist stops his or her spouse from freely expressing herself or himself sexually in the marriage. When the victim seeks to express love by sexual means, the narcissist reject its, and accuses him or her of being selfish or a nymphomaniac, to purposefully instill a false sense of guilt that person, and then tries even harder to please his or her spouse to the point of frustration. The narcissist takes pleasure in seeking his or her spouse frustrated at not being able to please him or her sexually.

Yet, when that victim refuses to accept the narcissist's false attempt to show 'love' sexually, which is nothing more than an attempt to gratify his or herself, the narcissist accuse the victim of being cold, unloving, or manipulative. 

The victim falls under sexual bondage as a result of his or her spouses sexual manipulation. A person can become subject to sexual bondage through absolutely not sexual immorality on his or her part, but purely through sexual manipulation by his or her spouse. For he or she is one flesh with him or her (1 Corinthians 6:16). That it is with his or her own spouse that he or she becomes one flesh with, does not in anyway make him or her immune to sexual bondage as a result of his or her own spouse's sexual manipulaton.


2. Stopping the Spouse from Praying for Oneself


The narcissist stops his or her spouse from praying for himself or herself, accusing him or her of being selfish, ungodly or self-centred for doing so. The narcissist's motives in doing so are to incite false guilt in such a person for taking care of himself or herself. The narcissists hates others for taking care of themselves, not simply because it demonstrates that he or she has not taken care for that person, but because they truly despise seeing others gain good things. The spirit of narcissism is a spirit of envy and jealousy.

3. Hindering the Spouse's Ministry


The narcissist is always trying his or her best to hinder his or her spouse's ministry, not just owing to his or her own jealousy, but his or her own selfishness. Ministry requires much sacrifice in time and effort. 

Much time is taken away from that narcissistic spouse which is why the narcissist always despises his or her spouse to doing ministry work. This is the main point of contention in many Christian marriages, where one spouse is filled with nothing but rage because the other is called to ministry. Of all of satan's agents, the narcissistic spouse is the most notorious in stopping a person from doing the ministry work that God has called him or her to do. 

4. Working the Spouse to Death


The narcissist tries to work his or her spouse to death. This conflict is where the relationship between the spirit of jezebel and the spirit of mammon is most evident.

Whether it be in relation to a secular vocation, or work in the domestic sphere, the narcissist is always whining, complaining, scolding, nagging, mocking, or scorning his or her spouse for not earning enough money, not being able to find a job, not being able to keep a job, or not doing enough housework. This applies to both sexes. 

Many men have been nagged by their narcissistic wives to earn more money, pressuring him to overwork himself to the point of exhaustion, so that he can become promoted, causing him great distress, falling under the category of marital distress. One main cause of marital distress is finance. 

Many men have also been scorned by their wives for not earning enough money or a stable enough income, another cause of work pressure for him, leading to much stress, even to the point of taking on any job that he does not really enjoy, but has to work in just for the money. Yet, when he spends more time at work to work to satisfy his wife's complaints, his wife complains, throwing a tantrum, about him for spending too much time at work. When he does not spend enough time at work, she accuses him of not loving her, but yet when he does spend that amount of time, she also accuses him or not loving her.

Some women have also been mocked by their husbands for not being able to find a job that pays sufficiently, as incapable, stupid, or unaccomplished. They compare her to women who work, and point out how much of a sadly incapable woman she is for not being able to find a job that pays sufficiently. Yet, when he is filled with rage whenever she receives a promotion that would lead to her income being increased to that almost equal to his, let alone, equal or more than his, all while mocking her when her income is much lower than his.

The spirit of narcissism is blind, and can work through either the husband or wife, in tempting him or her to treat his or her spouse as nothing more than a dollar sign, or machine in either work outside of the home, or work done in the domestic sphere.

People who are under the spirit of narcissism are inevitably enslaved to the spirit of mammon. The spirit of mammon drives such people to pursue their own desires for themselves. This truth cannot be understated. For it is the spirit of mammon, which tempts people with the love of money, that leads to all kinds of evil (1 Timothy 6:10). It is the spirit of mammon that not only drives the narcissist, but leads him to become a narcissist, full of the love of mammon, and therefore the love of self.


5. Cutting Off the Spouse from Contact with Family Members and Friends


The narcissist always tries to cut his or her spouse off from contact with family members and friends. While he or she maintains contact with his or her own family members and friends, the victim is hindered from doing so by the narcissist.

The narcissist loves to isolate his or her spouse from his or her family and friends because the narcissist hates seeing others receiving love. Yet, the narcissist often maintains very close contact with his or her own family and friends, not out of love for them, for the narcissist cannot love, but because he or she can use them, especially as a means of pushing his or her marriage problems onto them, or using them as a tool against his or her spouse. 

Narcissists are extremely diabolical people. They pervert every bit of the meaning of love itself, even that of filial love, and use their own parents or children against their spouse whenever they are angry. 

The narcissist wants his or her spouse to cut off contact with all family and friends so that he or she will not have a refuge in his or her time of trouble, especially when it relates to marriage or family problems. That why the narcissist will be the only one he or she can turn to for help, only to find that person to be the one causing him or her distress or trouble. This isolation is very skillfully used by narcissistic spouses to ensure that his or her victim is at his or her mercy. The narcissist simply just laughs at the helplessness of his or her spouse's isolation from family and friends in his or her time of trouble.











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